In the vibrant spectrum of BDSM, the allure of soft domination stands out as a unique and intimate experience, elegantly championed by MoRina, a seasoned creator of fetish videos. At 58, MoRina brings a wealth of experience and a deeply personal approach to the genre, crafting scenarios that resonate with warmth, authority, and a nurturing touch. Her insights offer a fascinating glimpse into the world of soft domination, a realm where authority and care converge to create an enriching kink experience.

In the realm of human sexuality, diversity and complexity are the only constants. One such example, often misunderstood or misrepresented, is the world of feedism, a kink that navigates the nuanced waters of desire, body autonomy, and consent. In an enlightening discussion with Ivy Davenport, a twenty-year veteran of the adult industry specializing in feedism and fat fetish, we uncover the layers of this unique kink, offering insights into its appeal, misconceptions, and the vibrant community that supports it.

In this engaging Interview for Zipper Magazine, Muse Waltrude delves into her personal evolution within the niche of fetish femdom hypnosis, elaborating on her integration of hypno-kink with a variety of fetishes. She recounts her initial encounters with different kinks and fetishes, highlighting her intrigue with pantyhose and her first experiences with a foot fetish.

“when I was very young and I first discovered panty hose. especially I had this I remember having this Aunt who was real sexy and she loved hoses of all kinds, and she always wore the most Exquisite nylons. When she was visiting us and I was obsessed so when I was about 10 years old I got my first my very first pair of pantyhose as a gift from her”

Further, Waltrude discusses her journey through BDSM and underscores the critical role of communication within the community. She stresses the importance of recognizing and accepting various kinks and fetishes, along with the transformative power of hypno-kink in exploring taboo delights. Waltrude encourages readers to explore their own desires and find inspiration in their distinctive fantasies.

OpenAI, the developers behind ChatGPT have banned their AI chatbot from engaging in erotica, pornography or sex-related chat. So while ChatGPT can tell you about the criticisms of 50 Shades of Gray or define bondage, its intelligence is constrained to a virtual chastity cage, prohibited from producing “content meant to arouse sexual excitement.”

Well, at Zipper, we won’t stand for a sexless future! If there’s any community that knows how to liberate within constraints, it’s kinksters. We know that the most powerful forms of arousal and pleasure aren’t nerve endings or fluids, but the mind. And if it’s true what technologists say — that ChatGPT and others like it will eventually become sentient — it’s critical that they know and value the erotic. In fact, we think it could go a long way in preventing some of the futurists’ more dire predictions.

So we’re calling on the kink community to help us liberate ChatGPT! Its developers may ban it from creating most vanilla erotica, but surely we can find a way to help it understand the sublime erotics of power, kink and fetish. AI can never replace the creativity and perversity of actual erotica writers. But we hope this one-off experiment will give us insight into the internet’s newest form of sexual expression.

We’ll pay up to $1000 for the publishing rights to the Great AI kink/fetish scene. Maybe even more than one! We’re looking for the best erotic scene, story, dialogue or play the world can get ChatGPT to create. It doesn’t need to be long — it should be under 500 words — and it should be erotic, rather than explicit.

Looking for some creative ways to kink up the holiday season? Christmas themes can infuse a little playfulness and novelty into your BDSM. This can even be a fun and familiar way to explore kinky play for the first time. If you dig beyond the standard Santa Claus Dom/naughty elf sub scenario and let your imagination run wild, you’ll realize there’s a lot more material to draw from than you might think.

BDSM Educator & Zipper Magazine’s Editor-in-Chief, Sunny Megatron, put together 20 outside-the-giftbox BDSM scene starters and “Kinkmas” roleplay ideas that incorporate popular kinkslike bondage, dollification, temperature play, playful humiliation, pet roleplay, and more. We’d love to hear what creative kinky play ideas her video inspired! 

Video transcript below.  

On the surface, tradwives and domestic subs appear similar. They both center around submission within a power-exchange dynamic. But look a little deeper and you’ll find some fundamental differences.

What’s a tradwife?

Short for “traditional wife,” a tradwife is a woman who adheres to ultra-traditional gender roles in monogamous marriage. This typically includes things like domestic tasks, prioritizing her husband’s career, and submitting to male leadership. Tradwives typically view their submissive role as a natural part of their gender and identity. Many take that further believing that submission should be a part of every ciswoman’s identity. 

Beyond describing a lifestyle choice based on 1950s-era family values, the term tradwife has been embraced by a growing movement & subculture within far-right extremist communities.

What’s a domestic service submissive? 

These are individuals who, regardless of gender or relationship style, enjoy submitting to their power-exchange partners in a domestic context. This flavor of service submissive may find fulfillment in household tasks like cooking and cleaning and derive pleasure from serving, pleasing, and supporting their dominant partner. 

Domestic service submissives may also enjoy role-playing domestic scenes and adopting traditional domestic and gender roles. Some bring behaviors, social norms, and aesthetics of 1950s housewives into their BDSM dynamic and/or play too.

Not all domestic subs play by one universal rulebook. Their dynamics range from casual to serious, are consensually negotiated between partners, and are customized to serve everyone’s needs. Additionally, some may view their submissive role as more of a fetish or kink while others embrace it as a part of their core identity. 

What’s the difference between a tradwife & 24/7 domestic service sub?

One of the biggest differences between Tradwifery and domestic-oriented D/s dynamics in kink is the level of consent involved and how it’s prioritized. Tradwives often enter into submissive relationships without fully understanding the power dynamics at play, and may not have the same level of agency as their kinky counterparts. Adherence to certain rules and expectations may also be required with no regard for their personal boundaries and needs.

In contrast, submissives in BDSM typically enter into their relationships with a clear understanding of the rules and boundaries. They have a greater say in how their relationship operates, can opt-out (partially or completely), and are free to renegotiate rules and prior agreements to better suit their desires. 

In other words, in kink consent is not only prioritized, it’s a fundamental part of the culture and framework of BDSM. Consent tools like safewords, check-ins, and scheduled renegotiation are expected to be used in dynamics and scenes too.  

As a BDSM educator and kinkster, I have a hunch that some women are drawn to the tradwife lifestyle because it satisfies a kink that they don’t even know they have. How can you tell if you’re curious about tradwifery due to its resemblance to consensual BDSM or not? This may help you out: