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Evie Lupine Talks SPH

With Evie Lupine

Small Penis Humiliation (SPH) is not merely a niche interest within the BDSM community but a profound avenue for exploring submission, masculinity, and self-worth. Eveve Lupine, in a detailed discussion sponsored by Zipper Magazine, sheds light on the complex dynamics of SPH, emphasizing its consensual and psychological depth.

 

SPH primarily involves the verbal ridicule of a man’s penis by focusing on size, though it can extend to comments about sexual performance and capacity to please. This form of humiliation is popular among male submissives and is frequently found in both professional dominatrix offerings and adult entertainment. “It is a very popular form of Kink especially for male submissives,” Eveve explains. This practice, however, is not about cruelty but about consensual exploration of vulnerability and identity.

 

One of the core aspects of SPH, as Eveve points out, is its role in affirming and validating personal worth beyond physical traits. “You can use SPH as a tool for validation, affirmation, and permission giving,” she notes. This approach allows individuals to see their value beyond conventional measures of masculinity, which often equates worth with genital size and sexual prowess.

 

Consent and careful negotiation are crucial to practicing SPH safely and enjoyably. Eveve stresses the importance of proactive discussions about boundaries and expectations. “Talk about what you want to have happen and what you want to have not happen,” she advises, suggesting the need for explicit guidelines and avoiding any unexpected or unwanted scenarios.

 

Incorporating SPH into a relationship or a scene involves understanding its potential psychological impact. It’s essential to approach SPH with sensitivity as it can be triggering for some. Aftercare becomes paramount in such scenarios. Post-scene care might involve affirmations and reassurances about each partner’s value and desirability, irrespective of the humiliation play.

 

Furthermore, Eveve explores the therapeutic potentials of SPH in dismantling stereotypes tied to masculinity. By challenging these norms, SPH can create a space for individuals to explore submission freely. “When you negate the penis’s ability to give pleasure on command, you then can more easily explore a submissive mindset,” she articulates.

 

Ultimately, SPH, like any other kink, requires understanding, respect, and compassion. It is a complex play that can lead to powerful emotional liberation and personal growth if handled with care and consent. As Eveve Lupine and Zipper Magazine continue to explore the realities of kink, they invite readers to look beyond the surface and see the potential for transformation and empowerment within BDSM practices.

 

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hello
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everyone my name is eveve Lupine and
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today thanks to zipper magazine we’re
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going to be talking about small penis
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humiliation or S
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pH zipper
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magazine and if you don’t know what that
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is it is a very popular form of verbal
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humiliation in which the receiver has
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their penis consensually ridiculed
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typically due to size though this can
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involve other comments about things like
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performance or the penis’s ability to
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give pleasure the main focus is on the
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size as I said this is a very popular
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form of Kink especially for male
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submissives it is all over pornography
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for male submissives and it’s also a
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very common offering in prodom or
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dominatrix offerings during sessions and
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because of that the stereotypical view
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that people have on SP tend tends to be
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something along the lines of it being
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very cruel and mean and degrading and
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that when you go through a session
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around SP it is miserable while it’s
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happening and you feel bad afterwards
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you don’t really have that positive
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resolution at the end that you might
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with some other Kinks and that is
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certainly a valid way to go about SP and
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one version of it but it’s not the only
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option I personally think you can also
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use SP as a tool for validation
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affirmation and permission giving if you
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want to do that it can be a way to use
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humiliation as a way to get to more
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positive emotions and have some
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affirmation for example it can be a way
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to remind someone that their penis isn’t
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the only way that they can provide
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pleasure to someone it can also be a
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reminder that the reason why their
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partner likes them isn’t just because of
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the package they bring to the table it
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can be a reminder to someone that they
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are a worthy bottom or submissive even
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without their genitals being part of the
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equation and in fact I think one of the
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most common reasons why people enjoy SP
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is because it can be a way of creating a
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safe container for mask folk to explore
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submission in the first place because of
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how tied up very many ideals are in
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masculinity equaling big strong powerful
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penis that is able to give pleasure on
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command and when you erase the penis his
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ability to do that when you negate that
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and you therefore lose your masculinity
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which is seen as synonymous with
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dominance you then can more easily for
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some people at least explore a
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submissive mindset and what it’s like to
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be able to give pleasure to someone and
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make them happy without your penis
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necessarily being involved but keep in
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mind any form of body-based humiliation
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play especially SP can be a very
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triggering area for some folks so if you
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do want to explore this I always
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recommend being very cautious and very
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proactive with your negotiations talk
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about this first do not spring this on
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someone in the middle of otherwise
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vanilla sex because you think that they
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might like it go slowly talk about what
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you want to have happen and what you
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want to have not happen I always
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recommend having very explicit
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guidelines for what you’re aiming for
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during a scene and some key phrases or
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topics to avoid so for example you might
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want to have a conversation where you
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say hey it’s okay to make fun of my size
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but please don’t negatively compare me
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to other past partners or it’s okay to
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point out that I’m very short or that my
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balls look weird but don’t talk about
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the fact that I’m circumcised or not so
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you can have a very detailed
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conversation about this if you want to
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and especially when you’re first
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starting out I recommend being pretty
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conservative with those boundaries
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because you can always make them more
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relaxed later but if you have have a
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very negative experience upfront it’s
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going to
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be time for after care it can be quite
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difficult after a humiliation play scene
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to do some of the typical after care you
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might do with a partner like Words of
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Affirmation so I might recommend for
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example pre-writing out a note your
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partner can read on their own time about
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affirming how much you care about them
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and like them whatever make sense for
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you and your Dynamic so that way they
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can process that on their own and when
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they’re ready to receive that
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information they can but outside of a
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dedicated humiliation play scene what
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are some other beginner ways all the way
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up to Advanced ways you can play with
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small penis humiliation now if you’re a
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total beginner I think the easiest way
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to start with this is by doing what I
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would call a mean [ __ ] this is
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basically the same kind of oral sex you
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might normally be having but the person
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who is giving the oral on the person
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with the penis is mean about it they’re
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making derogatory comments they have a
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scowl on their face they’re acting like
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they don’t really want to be there and
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they’re disappointed with you for having
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them do this in the first place and if
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you prefer more sexual play there are
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lots of other options with this you can
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have this be part of a sounding scene or
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a chastity scene or a pegging scene or
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an orgasm denial scene as well you can
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also do it as part of a service scene or
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body worship because hey if you can’t
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please your partner with your penis
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you’re going to have to find some other
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way to please them right it can also be
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part of a more conventional impact play
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scene especially if you’re playing more
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on the front of the
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th it’s also receiving the verbal
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humiliation and in that case between
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each stroke you might have them say
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something humil ating about their own
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penis and force them to be the one to do
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the humiliation themselves have them be
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creative if they repeat themselves or
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they’re not humiliating enough for your
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taste give them two strokes instead of
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just one you can also do this as part of
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a roleplay scene I think this works
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great with for example medical play
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imagine having a beautiful nurse poke
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and prod you all over you’re totally
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exposed completely vulnerable they’re
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doing all kinds of things with like
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electrical weing implements what’s going
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on and then on top of all of that the
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beautiful nurse is also making fun of
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your penis yeah that’s going to be
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pretty emotionally intense and finally
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if you’re in a long-term power exchange
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relationship there are lots of ways to
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incorporate this with rules protocol
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instructure to go alongside your DS so
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for example you might have a daily
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protocol where you have to say something
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humiliating about your penis in writing
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somewhere maybe in a text message on a
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whiteboard in your house or leaving a
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note with your part partner and this can
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be a good way of inviting a little bit
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of DS back and forth on a daily basis
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you might also have something where for
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example you have body writing you do
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every day as part of a ritual where you
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have to put a humiliating note on
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yourself somewhere where you remind
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yourself about how terrible and small
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and worthless your penises and my
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personal favorite example is when you
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have to refer to your own penis whenever
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you talk about it by a humiliating
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nickname but those are just some
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examples of how you can incorporate SP
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on a more regular basis in your
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relationship and with other kinds of
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play once again thanks to zipper
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magazine for helping me make this video
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please do go ahead and check them out
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and hopefully I will see you all again
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soon
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bye real Kink for real people brought to
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