What Is Pegging? A Beginner’s & Kinkster’s Guide
Newly crowned #PrinceOfPegging, Prince William, recently thrust the subject of pegging into the mainstream. Rather than embracing an opportunity to destigmatize pleasure, the internet lit up with shame-driven hot takes making those who enjoy this sexual practice the butt of jokes. If you’re curious about pegging, creative ways to bring it into your kink play, and how the definition has evolved to be more inclusive – skip the tabloids, we’ve got you.
Consensual Non-Consent: CNC Kink Isn’t What You Think
CNC isn’t necessarily forced sex role play – in fact, most of the time it isn’t. Consensual non-consent is any type of BDSM power play in which ignoring someone’s “no” is part of the consensually negotiated dynamic or scene. If CNC piques your interest but aggressive sexual domination isn’t your cup of tea, consider these scenarios instead.
#KinkTok: 10 TikTokers Who Are Redefining BDSM Community
Did you know there’s a kinky side of TikTok? #KinkTok is a bevy of BDSM insider insight and education from lifestylers and some of the most recognizable names in kink. If these videos haven’t hit your FYP yet, we’ve got you! Here are 10 KinkTokers you should follow who are redefining community.
#KinkSourcing: DIY Kink Community Tips & Pervertibles Gallery
We crowdsourced kinksters to learn about their experiences repurposing ordinary objects for extraordinary fun. The success stories, snafus, and helpful tips they shared are a goldmine of pervertibles wisdom. This first-hand insight may just help you avoid DIY disappointment in the dungeon.
Playing with Pervertibles
You don’t need a bunch of expensive gear to get the most out of BDSM. There are pervertibles all around you. Repurposing household items for kinky fun is a budget-friendly way to get your freak on. Think of it as pervy-upcycling. Not only are pervertibles excellent for unleashing your creativity, using them supports eco-conscious sustainable consumption too.
Want to be a Better Dominant? Learn to Seduce your Sub
Foreplay isn’t just for vanilla sex, it plays an important role in BDSM too. Kink seduction sets the stage for the intense physical and mental experiences to come. You can even start planting these seeds days before your scene. If you’re looking to level up your domming skills, these tips for seducing your sub will help.
Top 5 BDSM Power Exchange Myths
What are the rules for D/s relationships? Many have strong views on how power exchange should be done–but those are opinions & preferences, not a one-size-fits-all formula. Evie Lupine tells us the top 5 BDSM power exchange misconceptions that keep us from exploring kink the way we truly desire.
94 Non-Binary BDSM Names for Doms & Subs
You’re familiar with common kink titles/names – Sir, Mistress, boy, Daddy, Mommy, good girl, Master, Domme, princess. What about gender-neutral options? This list of 94 non-binary BDSM honorifics has plenty to choose from or may inspire you to craft your own.
Beyond DD/lg: The Versatility of Daddy Play
Daddy role-play isn’t just for kinksters. Daddies & Zaddies are hot bedroom archetypes among vanilla people too. Contrary to popular belief, age play (DD/lg), gender stereotypes, and BDSM aren’t required either. Daddy play is much more versatile than most realize and the reasons why we’re so into it are wide-reaching too.
Living leather history
We stand firm in the belief that we must never lose sight of our queer and leather history and the ways in which they are so inextricably tied. More from Queen Cougar, B.C. Cliver, and Robert Laurence…