Whats cuckold fetish
Cuckold terminology and etiquette can vary not only by community but also from person to person. This kink is a lot more versatile than many realize too. If you’ve ever wondered how a cuckcake differs from a hothusband, we’ve got you covered with this cuckoldry primer.
Edging, Chastity & Orgasm Control for Locktober & Beyond
In BDSM October is known as Locktober – a month of orgasmic restraint traditionally geared toward chastity subs and keyholders. It’s the perfect time to explore other orgasm control games too. These techniques can be long or short-term and enjoyed by anyone regardless of body type, budget, or partner status.
To Pee or Not to Pee? A Beginner’s Guide to Golden Showers
Pee play, like any fantasy, is about assessing the risks, communicating with your partner, and understanding what everyone needs to participate consensually. Not sure how to dive in? This piss play primer will help you get into the flow.
Folsom Street Fair Etiquette: 5 Essential Tips
Whether you’ve been in leather and kink communities before, or this is your first Folsom Street Fair, it’s always a good idea to remind yourself of the etiquette of this unique space. Here are five essential tips to help make your Folsom experience a positive one.
Everything you need to know about safewords
We tend to associate safewords with BDSM, but did you know they can be used in other contexts too? Sunny Megatron breaks down what safe words are, what they aren’t, how they can be used in kink for ill intent, and how to customize them to fit your sexual (and sometimes non-sexual) needs.
What Is Pegging? A Beginner’s & Kinkster’s Guide
Newly crowned #PrinceOfPegging, Prince William, recently thrust the subject of pegging into the mainstream. Rather than embracing an opportunity to destigmatize pleasure, the internet lit up with shame-driven hot takes making those who enjoy this sexual practice the butt of jokes. If you’re curious about pegging, creative ways to bring it into your kink play, and how the definition has evolved to be more inclusive – skip the tabloids, we’ve got you.
Consensual Non-Consent: CNC Kink Isn’t What You Think
CNC isn’t necessarily forced sex role play – in fact, most of the time it isn’t. Consensual non-consent is any type of BDSM power play in which ignoring someone’s “no” is part of the consensually negotiated dynamic or scene. If CNC piques your interest but aggressive sexual domination isn’t your cup of tea, consider these scenarios instead.
#KinkSourcing: DIY Kink Community Tips & Pervertibles Gallery
We crowdsourced kinksters to learn about their experiences repurposing ordinary objects for extraordinary fun. The success stories, snafus, and helpful tips they shared are a goldmine of pervertibles wisdom. This first-hand insight may just help you avoid DIY disappointment in the dungeon.
Playing with Pervertibles
You don’t need a bunch of expensive gear to get the most out of BDSM. There are pervertibles all around you. Repurposing household items for kinky fun is a budget-friendly way to get your freak on. Think of it as pervy-upcycling. Not only are pervertibles excellent for unleashing your creativity, using them supports eco-conscious sustainable consumption too.
Want to be a Better Dominant? Learn to Seduce your Sub
Foreplay isn’t just for vanilla sex, it plays an important role in BDSM too. Kink seduction sets the stage for the intense physical and mental experiences to come. You can even start planting these seeds days before your scene. If you’re looking to level up your domming skills, these tips for seducing your sub will help.