BDSM is fun but did you know it can be funny too?

Depictions of kink we usually see in the media are as serious as a heart attack. Black leather, menacing chains, and dominants barking orders to whimpering submissives are standard fare. Walk into a real-life dungeon, however, and you’ll likely hear howls of laughter amongst the gasps and moans.  

Everyone’s flavor of kink is unique. Some prefer stony-faced sadism but others get off to kink scenes that are downright ridiculous. We’re talking rubber chicken floggers, harmonica mouth gags, and funishments that will send you into uncontrollable giggle fits. Sound intriguing? 

In this video, Pup Amp and Mr. Kristofer explore outside-the-box scene ideas and BDSM toys and give us a taste of the silly side of BDSM. 

The Silly Side of BDSM Video Transcript:

Pup Amp, Mr. Kristofer:   

[Both shout greeting] Hello!

Pup Amp: Back to 

Mr. Kristofer: Watts the Safeword. 

Pup Amp: I’m Amp

Mr. Kristofer: I’m Mr. Kristofer and today we are what are we doing? [giggles loud after Pup Amp squeeze/tickles him]  Being silly. We are talking about the fun, silly side of kink… 

Pup Amp: For Zipper Magazine.  And if you’re not familiar with Zipper Magazine, daddy…

Mr. Kristofer: A new online magazine all about kink with content talking about the real relevant world of kink and coming from the community itself. Obviously, this video is playing for the launch has already happened. So go check them out and give us a little bump. If you enjoy the content. 

Pup Amp: I mean, it’s a certain way that you dress, it’s the community that is the kink that people misunderstand a lot of the time and it’s really easy to get into like the dark, sexy and kind of look that we have on kink because look at because you..

Mr. Kristofer: [growls sexily] .. lick it…

Pup Amp: [questioningly] .. because you lick it?

Mr. Kristofer: ..  lick it… [laughs] 

Pup Amp: Oh ok.

Mr. Kristofer: Because we like it to lick it. [short pause] But remember a lot of the sex we get off to is fantasy. So it’s is kind of built to be a fantasy of a very [growls] merrrrr….  bam, bam, bam. Basically for the newbies. BDSM isn’t always scary.

Pup Amp: And it’s something customizable, that you can put and apply to your specific flavors.

Mr. Kristofer: And make it scary.

Pup Amp: I don’t want a scary flavor. So I asked you guys on Twitter….

Daddy, would you like to put the explosion up?

Mr. Kristofer: I get to put an explosion up?

Pup Amp: Yeah, you just go poofff, bang…. [EXPLOSION sound]

Pup Amp: For your sexy but funny situations and kink and the first answer comes from Sadie Longlegs, who says my favorite thing to do while I’m bratting is tell ridiculous jokes to my dom until they bust out laughing.

Mr. Kristofer: See, I don’t know if I would laugh because they’re just annoying to me…

Pup Amp: Maybe you should unzip yourself a little bit…

Mr. Kristofer: Grumpy daddy. 

Pup Amp: Knock knock. 

Mr. Kristofer: Who’s there?

Pup Amp: Interrupting cow.

Mr. Kristofer: Interrupting Cow wh..[last word only half-said before interrupted] 

Pup Amp: Mooooooooooooo!

Mr. Kristofer: Just make me want to smack you.

Pup Amp: Moooo!

Mr. Kristofer: …  smack you.

Pup Amp: And as somebody who is a self-proclaimed brat tamer, I think that brats are very valid and jokes are very helpful in a scene. 

Mr. Kristofer: Are you saying that I’m a brat?

Pup Amp: Next experience.

And this one comes from Kieren who says I have a friend who has a rubber chicken in her play bag. It’s the most amazing impact instrument to date. And I love her dearly for the merriment she brings to play. [says sweetly] Ohhhhh.

Mr. Kristofer: So having toys as your BDSM instruments is very, very fun. 

I don’t have a chicken but I have a crocodile. [Both laugh]

Pup Amp: So good. You can get the most silly toys online. Like for instance you get some stuff from Etsy..  or maybe even like, Oh, [in baby voice] baby nipple clamps. 

If you’re not having fun, what are you doing?

Mr. Kristofer: If this doesn’t get them to laugh and cry at the same time.

Pup Amp: I’m laughing and crying.

Mr. Kristofer: Maxwell says – I also only allowed the boy to communicate with a bicycle horn. Which had him and me and stitches. [Laughs]

Pup Amp: So what do you think about this one telling me with only a squeaky toy

[sound of squeaky toy] Oh my God. oh no, okay. Or how about Sealed Rubber Gimp who says getting this “Thing One” and “Thing Two” t-shirts at MAL and wearing them for their Sir when they arrived home? 

Mr. Kristofer: [sweetly said] Ohhhh, that’s cute.

Pup Amp:  A Miss Lawrie Bird says – My friend Bound Man Love hosts a puppy mosh Puppy players have been some of the kindest, most playful and helpful people I’ve met the kink community. I’ve learned so much from them about communication consent inclusivity as I have now my own tail to wag.

Mr. Kristofer: Yeah, puppies are very fun. I remember my first puppy Mosh and I took a very vanilla friend with me to it. And he was laughing his ass off the entire time. Especially when the mosh had a mailman come through. And the entire puppy community attacked the mailman and tore off his clothes. It was very fun.

Pup Amp: Or how about Tamarra who says cracking a bad joke that breaks the scene for a fit of laughing and hugs. Maybe even doing so in order to get a “funishment’. Do you know what a “funishment” is?

Mr. Kristofer: It’s “fun” instead of “pun” in a “ishment”.

Pup Amp: It’s a fun punishment.

Mr. Kristofer: Oh, that makes more sense.

Pup Amp: To which Altruism Is Sexy responds – when you lose your grip and the very well lubed toy goes into NASA.

Mr. Kristofer: Thank God that never happens around my house. 

Pup Amp: Yeah. Thank God. Thank God. Thank God, thank God

Mr. Kristofer: Hey, leave my battles alone. Give me that.

Pup Amp: And when we talk about the sex and the fun times, we can’t forget about what comes after. In fact, Princess Tease says –  I love the aftercare. There’s nothing like the pets, sweet words of praise, hand-feeding after an intense exhilarating scene.

Mr. Kristofer: Yeah, I actually liked the aftercare because that’s where I kind of jokingly make notes about what worked and what didn’t and the sub feels in a very safe place because it seems over that they can laugh. We can laugh together about something that had happened that we both kind of just ignored.

Pup Amp: Yeah. I mean, it is a play, you’re roleplaying in a way and sometimes you have to ignore accidentally saying something, maybe a bodily sound. And last but not least from our thread, Mike says I wrote a quick article for a local mag about safewords. My favorite story is that safeword that cracked up a guy using it every time. Super intense play parties, one of the people there would use the word and sudden intense laughter would erupt. I mean, that’s the point, right? 

Mr. Kristofer: What’s the safe word? 

Pup Amp: They didn’t say. But I think their point being that even the safe words something that helps to stop a scene can elicit laughter.

Mr. Kristofer: And we do that every week. [Laughs]

Pup Amp: We do. Because if you’re not having to say safewords, you’re doing it wrong.

And today’s safeword is –  Oops, oh, maybe not. Oops, maybe not. Oops,

Mr. Kristofer: Make you laugh. 

But in all seriousness, safewords are important for your safety. We make light of it every week. And that’s

Pup Amp: And that’s because we’re having fun with kink in an approachable way that allows for conversations, questions, and just growth all around. You’re not going to get into kink and be the expert right away…  even with reading and watching all the content.

Helloooo. There’s so much to trying it making mistakes and being okay making those mistakes that it’s important to grow.

Mr. Kristofer: And laughing at making those mistakes.

Pup Amp: [Laughs] So I hope you enjoyed today’s episode all for Zipper Magazine. Again, you could check them out at the link on-screen or down in the description below. But thank you again for having us in your home, in your digital brain. And I hope that you learned some things about the fun, ridiculous, silly, or kinky side of kink.

Mr. Kristofer: Now zippit!! 

Pup Amp, Mr. Kristofer: Bye!