Tradwives seem to fit right into the BDSM world. They’re pretty much 24/7 domestic service subs with a 1950s housewife twist, right? Not exactly. There’s a few key differences between these submissive roles & their subcultures that you need to know.
We tend to associate safewords with BDSM, but did you know they can be used in other contexts too? Sunny Megatron breaks down what safe words are, what they aren’t, how they can be used in kink for ill intent, and how to customize them to fit your sexual (and sometimes non-sexual) needs.
CNC isn’t necessarily forced sex role play – in fact, most of the time it isn’t. Consensual non-consent is any type of BDSM power play in which ignoring someone’s “no” is part of the consensually negotiated dynamic or scene. If CNC piques your interest but aggressive sexual domination isn’t your cup of tea, consider these scenarios instead.
It can be challenging to find community as a kinky nonbinary person. So much of the BDSM subculture, from D/s archetypes to representation, is rooted in “traditional” gender roles. How do you find your people and place within kink? These tips can help.