Why You Need BDSM’s “Prime Directive”
Mollena Williams-Haas learned an important lesson early in her BDSM journey:
being a sub does not mean giving up autonomy.
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Featuring Pup Amp and Mr. Kristofer from Watts The Safeword
We teamed up with Watts the Safeword’s Pup Amp & Mr. Kristopher for their annual Kinky Census! More than 3000 people took the survey providing insight into the latest alt-sex and BDSM trends.
What are the most popular kinks? Weirdest fetishes? How many kinksters are neurodivergent? Are there more tops or bottoms? What’s our biggest squick? Is it common to not be into your partner’s kinks? How do most people handle kink incompatibility? What the answers to these questions (and more!) revealed about the BDSM community, what we fantasize about, and the most popular fetishes is fascinating!
And if you really want to geek out, tune into episode #156 of the Watts Your Safeword Podcast (you can find it on Spotify, Apple, or your favorite streaming service). Sexologist, BDSM expert, and Zipper Magazine Editor-in-Chief, Sunny Megatron, joined Amp for a deep dive into the psychological and cultural forces behind what the kink community is into.
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Mollena Williams-Haas learned an important lesson early in her BDSM journey:
being a sub does not mean giving up autonomy.
Foreplay isn’t just for vanilla sex, it plays an important role in BDSM too. Kink seduction sets the stage for the intense physical and mental experiences to come. You can even start planting these seeds days before your scene. If you’re looking to level up your domming skills, these tips for seducing your sub will help.
This month Fetish Con made its long-awaited in-person return after a two-year pandemic-related pause. We were there along with Clips4Sale to celebrate the 20th Anniversary of this legendary fetish event and to surprise attendees with our first print issue of Zipper Magazine.
“Gooning can be as simple as comfortably sitting in your room, putting on some porn, and edging for hours without cumming,”