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These are some of the most popular and trusted books written by reputable BDSM educators. You’ll find a little bit of everything on our list – BDSM 101, bondage instruction, D/s dynamics, kink community, communication skills, and more.
We asked over 500 kinksters how the pandemic impacted their experiences with the BDSM community, play partners, and their own kinky identity. This is what they said . . .
What was your experience as a kinkster during the pandemic?
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22-year-old submissive, Lulu, began exploring BDSM after stumbling upon #KinkTok in 2020. She now documents her kink journey on TikTok. “Yes, I did [get kinkier] … I define kinkier as having more knowledge and experience of kink than I did previously.”
Nix discovered BDSM community during lockdown. “I got ‘kinkier’ [during the pandemic] because I’ve learned to accept others’ kinks as valid. As a result, I’ve been able to expand the things I’m willing to try. I don’t think acts themselves make me kinkier, but my willingness to try out new things enthusiastically.”
Maurice interacts with kink community on Twitter Spaces. “I have an account on FetLife that’s vastly underused. I don’t remember my password or the last time I logged on. The site is slow and cumbersome and the layout and design have a hard time holding my interest. I’ve never really messaged or talked with people on the site.”
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These are some of the most popular and trusted books written by reputable BDSM educators. You’ll find a little bit of everything on our list – BDSM 101, bondage instruction, D/s dynamics, kink community, communication skills, and more.
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We asked over 500 kinksters how the pandemic impacted their experiences with the BDSM community, play partners, and their own kinky identity. This is what they said . . .
“Gooning can be as simple as comfortably sitting in your room, putting on some porn, and edging for hours without cumming,”