{"id":15034,"date":"2022-10-19T10:31:48","date_gmt":"2022-10-19T10:31:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/?p=15034"},"modified":"2022-12-07T12:17:44","modified_gmt":"2022-12-07T12:17:44","slug":"edging-chastity-orgasm-control-locktober","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/edging-chastity-orgasm-control-locktober\/","title":{"rendered":"Edging, Chastity &#038; Orgasm Control for Locktober &#038; Beyond"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"15034\" class=\"elementor elementor-15034\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-55e5f21 e-container--column e-container\" data-id=\"55e5f21\" data-element_type=\"container\">\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a515511 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"a515511\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.6.5 - 27-04-2022 *\/\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}<\/style><h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Edging, Chastity & Orgasm Control for Locktober & Beyond<\/h1>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-e17c8b1 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"e17c8b1\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3ac0d13\" data-id=\"3ac0d13\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2b31437 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2b31437\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.6.5 - 27-04-2022 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#818a91;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#818a91;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">by<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Stella Harris<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-426eca6 e-container--column e-container\" data-id=\"426eca6\" data-element_type=\"container\">\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4742173 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"4742173\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.6.5 - 27-04-2022 *\/\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2457\" height=\"960\" src=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Locktober-collage-2.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Locktober-collage-2.png 2457w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Locktober-collage-2-300x117.png 300w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Locktober-collage-2-1024x400.png 1024w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Locktober-collage-2-768x300.png 768w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Locktober-collage-2-1536x600.png 1536w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Locktober-collage-2-2048x800.png 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2457px) 100vw, 2457px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a13e944 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a13e944\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1c424b2\" data-id=\"1c424b2\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7088b81 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"7088b81\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.clips4sale.com\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"430\" src=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/VM-NEW-YES.gif\" class=\"attachment-large size-large\" alt=\"\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7a3817a e-container--column e-container\" data-id=\"7a3817a\" data-element_type=\"container\">\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-80f1853 elementor-widget-mobile__width-inherit elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"80f1853\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the BDSM world, October is known as <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinknews.co.uk\/2021\/10\/22\/locktober-chastity-cage-kink\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Locktober<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 a month in which chastity submissives refrain from orgasm. Geared primarily toward those who wear penile chastity devices, complementary kinks like edging, D\/s, erotic humiliation, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/cuckolding-with-maya-sinstress\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cuckolding<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and feminization go hand in hand with these month-long, \u201cLocktober Challenge\u201d tease and denial sessions.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Locktober is also a great time to explore <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">orgasm control games outside of traditional chastity and keyholding. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are many creative options that can be enjoyed long or short-term by anyone regardless of partner status or body type.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Orgasm control is probably my favorite kink. Unlike other forms of play I adore, it doesn\u2019t require any special equipment to get started (looking at you, rope bondage) or safety training classes, and it\u2019s infinitely customizable. Perhaps most importantly, orgasm control is incredibly intimate.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><h2>\u00a0<\/h2><h2><strong><em>Why Explore Orgasm Control?<\/em><\/strong><\/h2><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a professional sex educator and coach, I\u2019m regularly asked how to spice things up in the bedroom. The answer is usually more complicated than trying a new position or different toy. When people are looking for more spark, it\u2019s often intimacy and connection that\u2019s lacking rather than a failure of mechanics. That makes orgasm control a great option for anyone trying to light things up in the bedroom.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><h3>\u00a0<\/h3><h3><strong>Orgasm control requires focus &amp; awareness<\/strong><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For the dominant partner, engaging in orgasm control means being highly tuned in to your partner\u2019s experience. You need to learn what every gasp and twitch means to control their arousal level.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> And that\u2019s precisely the kind of focused attention many people crave.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For the submissive partner, you must become deeply aware of your own body. The better you understand your arousal patterns, the more control you\u2019ll have over your responses. That makes it easier to follow orders, whether you\u2019re being told to wait or ordered to orgasm.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><h3>\u00a0<\/h3><h3><strong>Orgasm control requires communication<\/strong><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Good sex requires good communication, but getting in the habit can be scary. One of the great benefits of orgasm control is that it provides an excuse and a framework for check-ins while you play. You can ask your partner if they\u2019re getting close or tell them to inform you whenever they\u2019re on the edge. From strict countdowns and commands to playful banter and dirty talk, the communication style you choose should fit your personality and the dynamics of your relationship.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you become more used to the nuances of your partner\u2019s pleasure and experience, your communication might boil down to sexual shorthand. Sometimes all that\u2019s needed are the words \u201cplease\u201d and \u201cwait.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p><h3>\u00a0<\/h3><h3><strong>Orgasm control doesn\u2019t require tools<\/strong><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I like gear as much as the next BDSM nerd, but <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/playing-with-pervertibles\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">high-quality kink toys can be a significant investment<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> One of the benefits of orgasm control is that you don\u2019t need any supplies to get started \u2014 you don\u2019t even need a partner \u2014 you can try orgasm control solo!<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> And if you do decide that orgasm control is your jam, there are many beautiful tools and toys you can add to the mix.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><h3>\u00a0<\/h3><h3><strong>Orgasm control allows you to explore D\/s without pain<\/strong><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kink-curious folks often worry that BDSM isn\u2019t for them if they\u2019re not interested in giving or receiving pain. Sure, spanking, flogging, and whipping are common forms of play \u2014 and might be eye-catching at parties \u2014 but they\u2019re not the only ways to play with <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/bdsm-power-exhange-myths-evie-lupine\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dominance and submission<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Exploring BDSM involves playing with power and control and exploring trust and vulnerability \u2013 absolutely no pain is required to bring these themes into the bedroom.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div><div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-33f55e3 e-container--column e-container\" data-id=\"33f55e3\" data-element_type=\"container\">\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9981c57 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"9981c57\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@kinkylifecoach\/video\/7019103011519614214\" data-video-id=\"7019103011519614214\" style=\"max-width: 400px;min-width: 325px;\" > <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@kinkylifecoach\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@kinkylifecoach?refer=embed\">@kinkylifecoach<\/a> Reply to @kinkylifecoach <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c TWINNEM - Coi Leray\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/TWINNEM-7010057968234268674?refer=embed\">\u266c TWINNEM - Coi Leray<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div><div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1b03c3e e-container--column e-container\" data-id=\"1b03c3e\" data-element_type=\"container\">\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3aa105c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3aa105c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2><strong><em>Forms of Orgasm Control<\/em><\/strong><\/h2><h3>\u00a0<\/h3><h3><strong>Edging<\/strong><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Edging means bringing yourself or your partner to the brink of orgasm and then backing off \u2014 allowing the desire for release to build. You can edge multiple times within a single play session, with or without ultimately allowing a climax.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Edging can increase the intensity of the eventual orgasm, and it can be a valuable tool for gaining control of your body\u2019s arousal and pleasure responses.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When playing with edging, you can simply stop providing stimulation to keep an orgasm from happening, or you can disrupt the orgasm in another way, like introducing tickling or pain.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><h3>\u00a0<\/h3><h3><strong>\u201cForced\u201d orgasm<\/strong><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019ve spent any time watching BDSM porn, you\u2019ve seen forced orgasms. On-screen, forced orgasms may be administered with the assistance of a wand-style vibrator, often combined with the submissive begging for permission to orgasm. But like all orgasm control, there\u2019s more than one way to play with forced orgasms.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Although introducing toys can help build intensity, they aren\u2019t required. Forced orgasms are about taking control of if, when, and how someone orgasms \u2014 the method of getting them there is entirely flexible.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s also common for forced orgasm play to involve multiple orgasms, or continued stimulation after orgasm (sometimes called post-orgasm torture), making the pleasure of orgasm so intense it verges on pain.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div><div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0eeac1a e-container--column e-container\" data-id=\"0eeac1a\" data-element_type=\"container\">\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3b7eb31 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"3b7eb31\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@sunnymegatron\/video\/6876850384896380165\" data-video-id=\"6876850384896380165\" style=\"max-width: 400px;min-width: 325px;\" > <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@sunnymegatron\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@sunnymegatron?refer=embed\">@sunnymegatron<\/a> <a title=\"chastity?\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/chastity%3F?refer=embed\"><\/a><a title=\"kinktok\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/kinktok?refer=embed\"><\/a><a title=\"solokink\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/solokink?refer=embed\"><\/a><a title=\"kinkeducation\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/kinkeducation?refer=embed\"><\/a><a title=\"lifestyleedu\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/lifestyleedu?refer=embed\"><\/a><a title=\"femmetop\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/femmetop?refer=embed\"><\/a><a title=\"femdom\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/femdom?refer=embed\"><\/a><a title=\"chastitydevice\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/chastitydevice?refer=embed\"><\/a><a title=\"chastitykink\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/chastitykink?refer=embed\"><\/a><a title=\"domsub\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/domsub?refer=embed\"><\/a><a title=\"playsafe\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/playsafe?refer=embed\"><\/a><a title=\"fettok\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/fettok?refer=embed\"><\/a> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - Sunny Megatron - Sex Educator\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-6876850430987553542?refer=embed\">\u266c original sound - Sunny Megatron - Sex Educator<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div><div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6ea22ed e-container--column e-container\" data-id=\"6ea22ed\" data-element_type=\"container\">\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2ce2608 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2ce2608\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3><strong>Traditional chastity &amp; keyholding<\/strong><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unlike other forms of orgasm control, chastity play often involves gear. From belts to cages, there are chastity devices for all kinds of genitals. Rather than simply controlling someone\u2019s orgasm by words or actions, a chastity device physically limits access to the genitals. And in the case of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/bedbible.com\/chastity-cage-the-best-cages-for-your-cock\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cock cages<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, even the ability to achieve an erection is controlled.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When using a chastity device, playtime can be strictly about the dominant\u2019s pleasure, or the device can be removed for play. But<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> just because a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.kinkly.com\/definition\/6123\/chastity-belt\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chastity belt<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or cock cage is coming off doesn\u2019t mean the submissive will necessarily be allowed to orgasm. It may simply be coming off for an edging session, only to be put back in place until next time.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A cage won\u2019t fit over an erect penis, so if an orgasm isn\u2019t happening, you\u2019ll need to wait for the erection to go down on its own before replacing the cage or resort to using ice to encourage the process.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wearing a chastity device is usually seen as a serious commitment, with a great deal of trust and control being placed in the hands of the keyholder. <\/span><\/p><h3>\u00a0<\/h3><h3><strong>Long-term &amp; long-distance play<\/strong><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Over the last few years, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/how-the-pandemic-made-us-kinkier-by-sunny-megatron\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kinksters have gotten more creative than ever<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and orgasm control is a great way to stay connected between in-person visits. Whether it&#8217;s during an 8-hour work day or a months-long absence, orgasm control fuels connection. If you\u2019re looking for inspiration, here are some ways to make edging and orgasm control a homework assignment:<\/span><\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tell your partner the number of times they need to edge before being allowed to orgasm\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have them keep an edging journal to record their sessions, but make them wait for the next in-person visit for release<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have them edge on their own, but then wait for permission by text before they can orgasm<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Require photographic proof of the edging sessions or the toys used during play<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tell your partner to write erotic stories about their experience to send to you<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Playing with orgasm control assignments keeps your connection \u2014 and your sex life \u2014 top of mind, even when you\u2019re physically apart.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div><div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a1f6d55 e-container--column e-container\" data-id=\"a1f6d55\" data-element_type=\"container\">\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7a4a8b6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"7a4a8b6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@krystinekellogg\/video\/6902915568727346438\" data-video-id=\"6902915568727346438\" style=\"max-width: 400px;min-width: 325px;\" > <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@krystinekellogg\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@krystinekellogg?refer=embed\">@krystinekellogg<\/a> Kristine\u2019s FLR Podcast Episode 14 <a title=\"kinkcommunity\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/kinkcommunity?refer=embed\">#kinkcommunity<\/a> <a title=\"chastitydevice\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/chastitydevice?refer=embed\">#chastitydevice<\/a> <a title=\"cuckolding\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/cuckolding?refer=embed\">#cuckolding<\/a> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - Krystine Kellogg\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-6902915533730007813?refer=embed\">\u266c original sound - Krystine Kellogg<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div><div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-13fd08d e-container--column e-container\" data-id=\"13fd08d\" data-element_type=\"container\">\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-88605ce elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"88605ce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2><strong><em>Getting Started With Orgasm Control<\/em><\/strong><\/h2><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Like any exploration of kink, getting started with orgasm control begins with a conversation. Sit down with your partner and talk about the fantasy you\u2019re having and how you\u2019d like to bring it to life. If you\u2019re at a loss for words, find some erotica or videos that turn you on, and use those as a starting point to express what you do and don\u2019t want to try.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some elements you might want to consider as part of your negotiation \u2014 take note of each yes, no, and maybe:\u00a0<\/span><\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Orgasm denial\/edging without release<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tickling<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pain<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Temperature play (like ice cubes)\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ruined orgasms (stopping past the point of no return, so an orgasm happens \u2014 but without satisfaction.)\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Post-orgasm torture (continuing stimulation after orgasm when the genitals are highly sensitive)\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Long-term edging<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Chastity devices\u00a0<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember, all it takes to begin experimenting with orgasm control is asking, \u201cpretty please?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div><div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c722afe e-container--column e-container\" data-id=\"c722afe\" data-element_type=\"container\">\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3bcb966 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3bcb966\" data-element_type=\"widget\" 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The success stories, snafus, and helpful tips they shared are a goldmine of pervertibles wisdom. This first-hand insight may just help you avoid DIY disappointment in the dungeon. <\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<article class=\"elementor-post elementor-grid-item post-11900 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-bdsm-how-to category-d-s_relationships category-kink_fundamentals\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__card\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail__link\" href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/bdsm-power-exhange-myths-evie-lupine\/\" ><div class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/power-exchange-1.png\" class=\"attachment-1536x1536 size-1536x1536\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/power-exchange-1.png 1024w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/power-exchange-1-300x117.png 300w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/power-exchange-1-768x300.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/div><\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__text\">\n\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-post__title\">\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/bdsm-power-exhange-myths-evie-lupine\/\" >\n\t\t\t\tTop 5 BDSM Power Exchange Myths\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h1>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__excerpt\">\n\t\t\t<p>What are the rules for D\/s relationships? 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