{"id":12925,"date":"2022-08-08T10:31:13","date_gmt":"2022-08-08T10:31:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/?p=12925"},"modified":"2022-12-28T16:37:12","modified_gmt":"2022-12-28T16:37:12","slug":"consensual-non-consent-cnc-rape-fantasy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/consensual-non-consent-cnc-rape-fantasy\/","title":{"rendered":"Consensual Non-Consent: CNC Kink Isn\u2019t What You Think"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"12925\" class=\"elementor elementor-12925\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-55e5f21 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"55e5f21\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a515511 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"a515511\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.21.0 - 30-04-2024 *\/\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}<\/style><h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Consensual Non-Consent: CNC Kink Isn\u2019t What You Think\n<\/h1>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-e17c8b1 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"e17c8b1\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3ac0d13\" data-id=\"3ac0d13\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2b31437 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2b31437\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.21.0 - 30-04-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">by<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Sunny Megatron<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-426eca6 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"426eca6\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4742173 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"4742173\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.21.0 - 30-04-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1400\" height=\"547\" src=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/CNC-2.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-12996\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/CNC-2.png 1400w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/CNC-2-300x117.png 300w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/CNC-2-1024x400.png 1024w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/CNC-2-768x300.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a13e944 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a13e944\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1c424b2\" data-id=\"1c424b2\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7088b81 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"7088b81\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.clips4sale.com\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"430\" src=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/VM-NEW-YES.gif\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-12703\" alt=\"\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5108d91 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"5108d91\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;gradient&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f62af9b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f62af9b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Content Note: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This article describes CNC kinks that are alternatives to role-plays between consenting adults that mimic rough forced sex. While not discussed in detail, phrases and concepts related to \u201crape play\u201d are mentioned for context and comparison. If you find this type of content triggering, please practice self-care in deciding whether to proceed.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7a3817a e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"7a3817a\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-80f1853 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"80f1853\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Google \u201cconsensual non-consent\u201d and you\u2019ll find dozens of articles that say things like:\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">CNC is an alternate term for rape play kink<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consensual non-consent is extreme BDSM edge play in which participants agree to an intimate encounter mimicking aggressive forced sex<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">CNC describes negotiated role-played reenactments that emulate rape<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m going to clear the air right now: Despite what the internet may lead us to believe, consensual non-consent, also known as CNC, is <\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">NOT<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> synonymous with rape play.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">CNC is an umbrella term that refers to <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">any <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">type of BDSM play or relationship dynamic in which ignoring someone\u2019s \u201cno\u201d is part of the consensually negotiated role play.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During CNC people usually rely on traditional safewords to revoke consent, stop a scene, or take a time out to address issues on neutral ground. Making \u201cno,\u201d \u201cdon\u2019t,\u201d or \u201cstop\u201d part of play allows those who enjoy distressing situations they can\u2019t control to cry, scream, beg, and plead for a way out even though they want it to continue. In other words, \u201cno\u201d really means \u201cyes\u201d in these cathartic sexual improv scenes. This is why using a word unrelated to the role play like \u201cred\u201d or \u201cpineapple\u201d as an agreed-upon stop mechanism is vital. These tools give everyone involved a way to maintain ongoing consent and control over their own autonomy at all times. <\/span><\/p><h2>\u00a0<\/h2><h2><strong>Why Do So Many Websites Claim CNC = Rape Play?<\/strong><\/h2><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forced sex fantasies, sometimes called ravishment or resistance play, are incredibly common among people of all genders. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexandpsychology.com\/blog\/2020\/3\/9\/fantasies-about-being-forced-to-have-sex-are-commonheres-why\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dr. Justin Lehmiller surveyed 4,000 Americans about their sexual fantasies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and found that 61% of women, 54% of men, and 68% of non-binary people had fantasized about being made to have sex against their will. Roughly a third of each group reported having these fantasies often. It\u2019s no wonder so many of us want to play out these scenarios in consensual, controlled, and safe ways.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is also why discussions about CNC and rape play have gone mainstream \u2013 the demand for this kind of content is clearly high. On one hand, reassuring the masses that the forced sex fantasies so many of us have are common, normal, and nothing to be ashamed of is a good thing. The downside is that CNC has been distorted and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vice.com\/en\/article\/m7vyk4\/consensual-non-consent-meaning\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sensationalized by mainstream media<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to such a degree that BDSM websites regularly regurgitate harmful misinformation published by popular outlets. Like a game of digital telephone, trusted professional publications twist the inaccuracies further with statements implying that CNC requires \u201c<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/women-who-stray\/202102\/consensual-non-consent-exploring-challenging-boundaries\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Giving up the ability to use a safeword in kinky encounters<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let me be clear: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There must <\/span><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/secureservercdn.net\/198.71.233.216\/9xj.1d5.myftpupload.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Best-Practices-for-Consent-to-Kink.pdf\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ALWAYS be an agreed-upon stop mechanism in kink<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. If there isn\u2019t, it\u2019s not consensual. If there\u2019s <\/span><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/news\/world-44041947\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">no consent, it\u2019s not BDSM<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 it\u2019s <\/span><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2018\/05\/23\/style\/bdsm-kink-consent.html\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">coercion<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/resources\/healthy-bdsm-relationships-are-possible\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">abuse<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, or <\/span><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/www.them.us\/story\/kink-101-bdsm-and-consent\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">assault<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-33f55e3 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"33f55e3\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9981c57 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"9981c57\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@moxierosedances\/video\/7127482540176297262\" data-video-id=\"7127482540176297262\" style=\"max-width: 400px;min-width: 325px;\" > <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@moxierosedances\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@moxierosedances\">@moxierosedances<\/a> Replying to @tigger w <a title=\"fyp\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/fyp\">#fyp<\/a> <a title=\"qinktok\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/qinktok\">#qinktok<\/a> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - Moxie Rose\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7127482532001778478\">\u266c original sound - Moxie Rose<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1b03c3e e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"1b03c3e\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3aa105c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3aa105c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When respected publications legitimize dangerous myths about BDSM it puts people in harm&#8217;s way. Curious kinksters reference these articles for self-study. Educators and kink content creators unknowingly amplify this misinformation by teaching others what they\u2019ve learned. Skeptics attempting to verify facts mistakenly deem them credible unaware they\u2019ve been duped by a tangled web of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mediacollege.com\/journalism\/standards\/circular-reference.html#:~:text=A%20circle%20is%20created%20with,using%20Bob%20as%20a%20source.\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">circular references<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now that we\u2019re clear rape play is only <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">one <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">type of CNC and not <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">all<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> CNC is rape play, you might be wondering if I\u2019m making much ado about nothing. Isn\u2019t interchanging the terms CNC and rape play just a matter of semantics? I wish it were that simple. Glossing over this nuance sets the stage for unpleasant kink encounters, physical injury, emotional trauma, and abuse in BDSM. This is especially true for new kinksters who, due to the media attention it gets, believe extreme CNC is entry-level kink. Not to mention, normalizing the notion that kink 101 and heavy edge play are one and the same contributes to BDSM stigma by reinforcing the myth that kinky people are reckless and irresponsible.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rape play, other types of CNC, and heavy edge play, in general, are valid choices that can be fulfilling and enjoyable. But, similar to extreme sports, their high-risk nature and required level of skill gives these kinks the potential to be just as devastating as they are exhilarating.\u00a0 <\/span><\/p><h2>\u00a0<\/h2><h2><strong>What Is Edge Play?<\/strong><\/h2><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">CNC scenarios including kidnapping, interrogation, faux-blackmail, fantasy rape, somnophilia, and roleplays emulating sexual exploitation or coercion are all considered edge play. Activities like choking, blood play, golden showers and scat, knife and gunplay, heavy psychological torment and mindfucks, plus some types of rope bondage fall under the edge play umbrella too.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I define edge play as, \u201cany type of BDSM activity that pushes us to the edges of our comforts, boundaries, or what we believe is safe.\u201d Additionally, edge play carries significant physical and\/or psychological <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@sunnymegatron\/video\/7013110615094971654?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc&amp;web_id=6901962179530294789\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">risk that can be mitigated (but never eliminated)<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with extensive <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sunnymegatron.gumroad.com\/l\/negotiationwb\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consent negotiation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, compassionate communication, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/bit.ly\/kinkacademy\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">expertise, education<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, trust and familiarity with partners, careful planning, and self-awareness. Even when done as thoughtfully and carefully as possible, things can still go wrong. With edge play missteps tend to have a significant and potentially long-lasting impact.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Contrary to popular belief, edge play isn\u2019t a goal all kinky people work toward. Many kinksters have no interest in it. However, because extreme BDSM receives the lion&#8217;s share of media attention, many without connection to kink communities mistakenly believe it\u2019s common, low-risk, and the only way to play. <\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0eeac1a e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"0eeac1a\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3b7eb31 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"3b7eb31\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@sunnymegatron\/video\/7016193695821221126\" data-video-id=\"7016193695821221126\" style=\"max-width: 400px;min-width: 325px;\" > <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@sunnymegatron\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@sunnymegatron\">@sunnymegatron<\/a> Reply to @sunnymegatron This misinformation about CNC has spread like wildfire online. It&#39;s a circular reference &#38; dangerous!  <a title=\"kinkeducator\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/kinkeducator\">#kinkeducator<\/a> <a title=\"edgeplay\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/edgeplay\">#edgeplay<\/a> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - Sunny Megatron\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7016193296850553605\">\u266c original sound - Sunny Megatron<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6ea22ed e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"6ea22ed\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2ce2608 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2ce2608\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2><strong>Types of Consensual Non-Consent Kinks<\/strong><\/h2><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The world of kink is one of infinite choice that allows you to customize your experiences to match your desires and comfort level. Each new play idea you explore can increase your potential for choose-your-own-BDSM-adventure success exponentially.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> If CNC piques your interest but forced sexual role plays and aggressive domination aren\u2019t your cup of tea (or maybe they are but you\u2019re not quite ready to jump into the deep end of the pool), consider these scenarios instead:\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p><h3>\u00a0<\/h3><h3><strong>Brat Play<\/strong><\/h3><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the things that makes kink play so much fun is that it gives us license to lean into facets of our personality that don\u2019t get much air time. We can even adopt a persona that\u2019s the polar opposite of how we typically act just for the thrill of it. Brats are typically submissives (but not always, bratty D-types exist too) who are defiant and mischievous. They dish out playful sass as opposed to mean-spirited disobedience.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s common for bratty submissives and their D-types (who sometimes call themselves brat tamers) to engage in cheeky banter or play-argue about rules and protocol. Brats may respond to orders with, \u201cno, I don\u2019t want to!\u201d or \u201cif you want me to do that you\u2019re gonna have to make me!\u201d In turn, the brat tamer may snap back with, \u201cstop being difficult!\u201d or \u201ccut it out right now or you\u2019re really going to get it!\u201d In this lighthearted battle of wills, the brat eventually acquiesces and the dominant regains full control.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This kind of play requires lengthy negotiation and frequent boundary check-ins to make sure the teasing doesn\u2019t go too far. Some consider it psychological edge play. When we\u2019re wrapped up in play, we may say something in jest that oversteps an unknown boundary hurting our partner&#8217;s feelings. As with all CNC play, safewords should be used since verbal resistance is part of the role play.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p><h3>\u00a0<\/h3><h3><strong>Funishments &amp; Pain Play<\/strong><\/h3><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Funishments are fun punishments. They also pair well with brat play. If you\u2019re in the mood for an over the knee bare handed spanking, for instance, you can negotiate a role play that allows you to \u201cearn\u201d it as a pretend punishment for misbehaving. It doesn&#8217;t have to stop there either. During the spanking, the brat might wiggle around pleading \u201cNo! Stop it! Ouch!\u201d trying to cover their butt cheeks with their hands. That resistance could be part of the plan too and serve as a reason to add wrist restraints to the scene.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">SAM stands for Smart Ass Masochist. Some say SAMs act exactly like brats with the only difference being that they identify as masochists. Others will tell you they\u2019re \u201cbrats on hyperdrive\u201d because they egg their partners on with extreme smart-ass behavior in hopes of receiving very heavy impact, pain, or psychological edge play in return. Kink identities tend to be personal and subjective so how SAM is defined depends on who you ask.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Additionally, forms of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/thecage.co\/magazine,83.html\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primal play<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in which partners physically compete for dominance similarly rely on the give and take of consensual resistance albeit to a greater degree.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a1f6d55 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"a1f6d55\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7a4a8b6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"7a4a8b6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@sunnymegatron\/video\/7090661274845154606\" data-video-id=\"7090661274845154606\" style=\"max-width: 400px;min-width: 325px;\" > <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@sunnymegatron\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@sunnymegatron\">@sunnymegatron<\/a> Reply to @uncerillo Yes, I&#39;ve found true punishments are used a lot less than people assume <a title=\"kinkiscustomizable\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/kinkiscustomizable\">#kinkiscustomizable<\/a> <a title=\"funishments\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/funishments\">#funishments<\/a> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c Good impression VP company introduction (3 minutes)(983023) - RYOpianoforte\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/Good-impression-VP-company-introduction-3-minutes-983023-6940713166678525953\">\u266c Good impression VP company introduction (3 minutes)(983023) - RYOpianoforte<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-13fd08d e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"13fd08d\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-88605ce elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"88605ce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3><strong>Getting What We Want Without Having To Ask<\/strong><\/h3><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">CNC can be ideal for trying new things without having to muster up the courage to initiate them in the moment. Like aggressive ravishment play, this may include sexual scenarios that trigger shame. This version, however, requires a gentler approach. Instead of someone taking from you against your will for their own pleasure, what if they lovingly persuaded you to do something for your own enjoyment?\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Through this lens, consensual forced bi scenes become playful \u201cencouragement\u201d scenarios. Anything you need a little permission-giving push to get into fits the bill \u2013 crossdressing, overcoming the self-consciousness of having sex with the lights on, or pushing any boundary you\u2019ve decided to explore.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><h3>\u00a0<\/h3><h3><strong>Chastity &amp; Orgasm Control<\/strong><\/h3><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Orgasm games are often played out as CNC arrangements. With long-term chastity, orgasm restriction, and edging participants negotiate and agree on terms before the play or chastity contract begins. The s-type may beg and plead, \u201cOh please let me cum! Just one little orgasm! I\u2019ll do anything you want, please! I can\u2019t stand it!\u201d That\u2019s part of the fun \u2013 the delicious distress of mounting arousal intermingled with the anticipation of release.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forced orgasms go in the opposite direction. Responses like \u201cI\u2019m too sensitive! It\u2019s so intense I can\u2019t stand it! I have no more orgasms left in me! Turn off the vibrator!\u201d are all part of the erotic improv.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p><h3>\u00a0<\/h3><h3><strong>Accountability, Task Management &amp; 24\/7 TPE<\/strong><\/h3><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kink isn\u2019t always about sex and neither is CNC. Sometimes consensual non-consent is used as a tool for long-term goal setting or self-improvement.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Let\u2019s say I\u2019ve committed to going to the gym three times every week for the next month. I have a hard time with follow through so I ask my dominant to be my taskmaster. When negotiating I tell them to force me to go to the gym on my designated days no matter what. If I skip out I consent to stern consequences. I also have a safeword I can use if an extenuating circumstance prevents me from accomplishing my goal or receiving discipline.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When a day rolls around when I\u2019m just not feeling it but must fulfill my obligation anyway, I might find it cathartic to moan, cry, and play-argue over having to comply. Or maybe the thought of making my dominant proud and earning a reward is all the motivation I need.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Taking this everyday-CNC concept a step further, some 24\/7 D\/s couples use blanket consent or meta-consent and consider their dynamic to be a CNC relationship. This means the s-type allows the D-type to make all consent decisions at any time. Often they say they \u201cdon\u2019t use safewords\u201d or that submissive has consensually \u201cgiven up safewords.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This gets tricky. Online this type of arrangement seems much more common than it actually is. It\u2019s also portrayed as healthy and successful much more often than it is in practice. Unfortunately, those with ill intent often use this to their advantage. They may tell new-to-BDSM partners that submissives aren\u2019t supposed to have safewords in D\/s dynamics and are required to deprioritize their own basic needs to focus solely on their dominant\u2019s pleasure. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/why-you-need-bdsms-prime-directive\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is not true<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">!\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While 24\/7 D\/s style blanket consent works well for some people, they\u2019re the vast minority. Typically considered advanced D\/s play, the most successful have slowly arrived at this equilibrium after fine-tuning their dynamic agreements over many years. While the s-type has consented to do things they don\u2019t particularly like at their D-type\u2019s request, this blanket consent does not permit the violation of hard limits. While safewords might not be used, in emotionally healthy dynamics there\u2019s still always an agreed-upon way to revoke consent that\u2019s unique to those in that dynamic. For some that may be removing a collar. Others may have a verbal cue they don\u2019t consider to be safeword in the traditional sense but serves a similar purpose.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This, by no means, was an exhaustive list but hopefully, it got your wheels turning. Elements of CNC can be interwoven into so many play styles and role plays. In many cases, consensual non-consent has more to do with <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you play than <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">what type <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of play you&#8217;re physically engaging in. I\u2019d love to hear some of your outside-the-box CNC ideas. Drop us a line to continue the conversation on <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/zippermagdotcom\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Twitter<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/zippermagdotcom\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instagram<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c722afe e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"c722afe\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3bcb966 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3bcb966\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\"There must ALWAYS be an agreed-upon stop mechanism in kink. If there isn\u2019t, it\u2019s not consensual. 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elementor-element-726bcb7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"726bcb7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Sharing is caring<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6edcb1c e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"6edcb1c\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;slideshow&quot;,&quot;background_slideshow_gallery&quot;:[{&quot;id&quot;:1291,&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/zippermagazine.com\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2022\\\/05\\\/Rectangle-16.png&quot;}],&quot;background_slideshow_loop&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;background_slideshow_slide_duration&quot;:5000,&quot;background_slideshow_slide_transition&quot;:&quot;fade&quot;,&quot;background_slideshow_transition_duration&quot;:500}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div 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and media personality. She\u2019s the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.sho.com\/sho\/sex-with-sunny-megatron\/home\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">SEX with Sunny Megatron<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, plus co-hosts AASECT Award winning <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/americansexpodcast.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">American Sex Podcast<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/opendeeplypodcast.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Open Deeply Podcast<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Sunny was also named XBIZ <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.xbiz.com\/news\/256804\/2021-xbiz-awards-winners-announced\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sexpert of the Year<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> 2021 and is Editor-in-Chief of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Zipper Magazine<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Known for her one-of-a-kind build-your-own-adventure approach to sex, kink &amp; relationships, Sunny coined the BDSM community catch-phrase, Kink is Customizable\u2122. In her sell-out workshops, her unique brand of \u201cedutainment\u201d seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny\u2019s passion is helping others overcome shame and find power through play and pleasure. Currently, she\u2019s working on her first book, \u201cCustomizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Adult Play.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can find Sunny Megatron on <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/tiktok.com\/@sunnymegatron\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">TikTok<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/sunnymegatron\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Twitter<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/instagram.com\/sunnymegatron\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instagram<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/facebook.com\/sunnymegatron\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Facebook<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/patreon.com\/americansexpodcast\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Patreon<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-e15ab38 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"e15ab38\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3bf5ee9\" data-id=\"3bf5ee9\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4f07532 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4f07532\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">READ NEXT<\/p>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-07470ee elementor-posts--align-center elementor-posts__hover-none elementor-grid-2 elementor-grid-tablet-2 elementor-grid-mobile-1 elementor-posts--thumbnail-top elementor-widget elementor-widget-posts\" data-id=\"07470ee\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;cards_row_gap_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:20,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;cards_columns&quot;:&quot;2&quot;,&quot;cards_row_gap&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:60,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;cards_columns_tablet&quot;:&quot;2&quot;,&quot;cards_columns_mobile&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;cards_row_gap_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\" data-widget_type=\"posts.cards\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/elementor-pro\/assets\/css\/widget-posts.min.css\">\t\t<div class=\"elementor-posts-container elementor-posts elementor-posts--skin-cards elementor-grid\">\n\t\t\t\t<article class=\"elementor-post elementor-grid-item post-17715 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-bdsm-how-to category-consent__safety category-fetish_spotlight category-sunny_megatron\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__card\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail__link\" href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/tradwife-vs-domestic-service-sub\/\" tabindex=\"-1\" ><div class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1400\" height=\"547\" src=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Tradwife-v-DSS.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-17802\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Tradwife-v-DSS.jpg 1400w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Tradwife-v-DSS-300x117.jpg 300w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Tradwife-v-DSS-1024x400.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Tradwife-v-DSS-768x300.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" \/><\/div><\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__text\">\n\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-post__title\">\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/tradwife-vs-domestic-service-sub\/\" >\n\t\t\t\tWhat&#8217;s the Difference Between a Tradwife &#038; Domestic Service Submissive?\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h1>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__excerpt\">\n\t\t\t<p>Tradwives seem to fit right into the BDSM world. They\u2019re pretty much 24\/7 domestic service subs with a 1950s housewife twist, right? Not exactly. There\u2019s a few key differences between these submissive roles &#038; their subcultures that you need to know. <\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<article class=\"elementor-post elementor-grid-item post-21462 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-evie_lupine category-sph category-videos\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__card\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail__link\" href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/evie_lupine_talks_sph\/\" tabindex=\"-1\" ><div class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1400\" height=\"583\" src=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/Evie_lupine_SPH_cover.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-21464\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/Evie_lupine_SPH_cover.png 1400w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/Evie_lupine_SPH_cover-300x125.png 300w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/Evie_lupine_SPH_cover-1024x426.png 1024w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/Evie_lupine_SPH_cover-768x320.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" \/><\/div><\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__text\">\n\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-post__title\">\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/evie_lupine_talks_sph\/\" >\n\t\t\t\tEvie Lupine talks SPH\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h1>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__excerpt\">\n\t\t\t<p>Evie Lupine dives into a comprehensive look at both the psychological aspects of SPH and its practical application, including beginner and advanced play suggestions. Whether you&#8217;re curious about integrating SPH into your dynamic or just seeking to understand more about this aspect of kink, this video offers valuable insights and advice.<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<article class=\"elementor-post elementor-grid-item post-13888 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-culture_and_community category-emerson_karsh category-media__tech category-perspectives\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__card\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail__link\" href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/how-to-build-a-sex-room-netflix\/\" tabindex=\"-1\" ><div class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1400\" height=\"547\" src=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Netflix-art-II.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-14097\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Netflix-art-II.png 1400w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Netflix-art-II-300x117.png 300w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Netflix-art-II-1024x400.png 1024w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Netflix-art-II-768x300.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" \/><\/div><\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__text\">\n\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-post__title\">\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/how-to-build-a-sex-room-netflix\/\" >\n\t\t\t\tNetflix\u2019s How To Build a Sex Room: A Kink Educator Weighs In\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h1>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__excerpt\">\n\t\t\t<p>How To Build a Sex Room, Netflix, Melanie Rose, thekinkeducator, BDSM on TV, Netflix kink, home dungeon, adult playroom, luxury dungeon, Taylor and Ajay, Raj and Ryan, Orlando and matthew, Lester and Soriya, shenika and matthew, heather and sara, sex palace, interior design, BDSM education, mary poppins fo kink<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<article class=\"elementor-post elementor-grid-item post-12436 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-bdsm-how-to category-diy_bdsm category-kink_fundamentals category-perspectives\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__card\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail__link\" href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/kinksourcing-diy-kink-pervertibles\/\" tabindex=\"-1\" ><div class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" src=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Pervertibles-cover-art.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-12580\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Pervertibles-cover-art.png 1200w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Pervertibles-cover-art-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Pervertibles-cover-art-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Pervertibles-cover-art-768x432.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/div><\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__text\">\n\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-post__title\">\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/kinksourcing-diy-kink-pervertibles\/\" >\n\t\t\t\t#KinkSourcing: DIY Kink Community Tips &#038; Pervertibles Gallery\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h1>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__excerpt\">\n\t\t\t<p>We crowdsourced kinksters to learn about their experiences repurposing ordinary objects for extraordinary fun. 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