{"id":11900,"date":"2022-07-05T08:34:21","date_gmt":"2022-07-05T08:34:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/?p=11900"},"modified":"2022-12-07T11:13:57","modified_gmt":"2022-12-07T11:13:57","slug":"bdsm-power-exhange-myths-evie-lupine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/bdsm-power-exhange-myths-evie-lupine\/","title":{"rendered":"Top 5 BDSM Power Exchange Myths"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"11900\" class=\"elementor elementor-11900\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-546f604 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"546f604\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1fc202b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1fc202b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! 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That cookie-cutter example of what a \u2018real\u2019 dominant-submissive relationship is isn\u2019t the only option.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re unfamiliar with the phrase, power exchange is another term for Dominance &amp; submission\u2013the D\/s in BDSM. Sometimes this type of dynamic is referred to in the kink community as 24\/7 TPE (Total Power Exchange), Authority Transfer, or described by chosen relationship titles like Consensual <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/why-you-need-bdsms-prime-directive\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Master\/slave<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, Owner\/property, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/beyond-dd-lg-the-versatility-of-daddy-play\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">DD\/lg<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, etc.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some kinksters have strong opinions on how power exchange <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">should <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">be done:<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">D\/s isn\u2019t for beginners because they don\u2019t understand the dangers<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Power Exchange must be taken seriously\u2013it\u2019s not meant for casual or platonic relationships\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dominants in D\/s dynamics must be well-versed in authoritarianism and creative punishment techniques<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Submissives should have a high pain tolerance because impact play is used as behavior correction in authority transfer dynamics<\/span><\/li><\/ul><div>\u00a0<\/div><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While some people may choose to configure their D\/s dynamics along these lines, there certainly aren\u2019t written-in-stone rules. Consent is the only mandatory constant, the rest of the details are up to you and those in your dynamic to agree on.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not sure about how you can customize your D\/s dynamic? Evie Lupine\u2019s power exchange kink education video will give you some ideas.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/qgCYl1dqIfQ\"><b>Top 5 BDSM Power Exchange Myths<\/b><\/a><\/span><\/em><b> <\/b><\/h2><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><b>Video Transcript<\/b><\/h2><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><b>Evie Lupine:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Hello, everyone. My name is Evie Lupine. And today&#8217;s video is brought to us courtesy of a very special new project, Zipper Magazine.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now if you are like me, you have probably been frustrated over the years by some of the less than accurate representations of BDSM in the media \u2013 the salacious magazine articles, the inaccurate TV shows and some downright offensive movies. But Zipper Magazine hopes to change that. They are a project that is by kinksters for kinksters. That is a great way to stay in touch with the lifestyle and learn more about BDSM whether you are just curious, a beginner or you have 25 years of experience being in the community. Zipper offers genuine insights and real information about kink from some of the best educators from around the globe, including some of my favorites like <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/challenginglimiting-beliefs-through-kink\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Midori<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/why-you-need-bdsms-prime-directive\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mollena Williams-Haas<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/how-the-pandemic-made-us-kinkier-by-sunny-megatron\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sunny Megatron<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. And I am so grateful that I get this opportunity once again to work with them to contribute to that learning environment.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So let&#8217;s get into it, because today we&#8217;re going to be talking a little bit about power exchange. It&#8217;s the \u201cD\u201d and the \u201cS\u201d in BDSM. Dominance and submission, when someone is giving up power to you or you are giving up power to someone else, respectively. And this is an area of kink that a lot of people are drawn to. And it can be something that a lot of people get into BDSM \u2013 just to do. But even though it has a lot of appeal behind it, it is also steeped in myths and misconceptions that mean people don&#8217;t necessarily always get to fully explore it or fully enjoy it. So let&#8217;s go ahead and break down some of the top myths and misconceptions behind power exchange, and maybe start to have a little bit of a better understanding of what it&#8217;s really like.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Number one is that beginners can&#8217;t do real power exchange<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is something you oftentimes see from people that have more experience that want to gatekeep the lifestyle. And either from a safety perspective, think that people who are newer can&#8217;t or shouldn&#8217;t engage in power exchange, because it&#8217;s just too risky and they don&#8217;t really understand what they&#8217;re getting into yet, or people that think that those who are newer to the lifestyle aren&#8217;t going to take it seriously and are just misusing the label for some reason. But this is absolutely not the case.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Like I said, many people get into BDSM for the reason that they want to engage in power exchange. It&#8217;s not just something that exists on only one level. Power exchange can be something that you kind of dip your toes into gradually over time. Rather than going right to the end and having big fancy signed contracts and wearing a collar, you can start just with really simple rules or a simple title and then build from there. So it doesn&#8217;t have to necessarily start off on the deep end, it can go at your pace, as you learn more about the lifestyle.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Number two is that dominants always act dominant and submissives always act submissive<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s interesting, because you can also hear the opposite of this, especially with male submissives where there&#8217;s the stereotype that male submissives in their everyday real life are powerful CEOs that just need to unwind and relax from their stressful careers. And that can definitely be true, but the fact that there&#8217;s two opposite stereotypes should go to show that there&#8217;s not really a lot behind this.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A lot of people believe that dominants have to be burly and overbearing and demanding not only to their submissive, but to everyone else they meet in life, they have to be alpha, they have to be in control of everyone. And that&#8217;s simply not the case. A lot of dominants are more shy and reserved.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are many different styles and approaches both to being a dominant and to being a submissive and just because you happen to be submissive to one person, to your partner even, that doesn&#8217;t mean you&#8217;re submissive in your everyday life or that you are just a doormat for everyone else around you. That is just a really unhelpful stereotype and just because your everyday personality maybe doesn&#8217;t look like what erotica has told you a submissive or dominant looks like doesn&#8217;t mean that you won&#8217;t be able to find success and find a relationship in a power exchange capacity that works for you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Number three is that D\/s always involves romance and love<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I did just mention erotica and, of course, a lot of people get their initial inklings about BDSM from things like erotica and porn, and they oftentimes meld together romance and sex and BDSM together into one total relationship, but it&#8217;s not the only way to do D\/s.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some people, they have a platonic partner, somebody who they are friendly with and on good terms with, that they have mutual respect with that isn&#8217;t necessarily somebody they have romantic or sexual feelings for. BDSM does not have to be sexual, it can be entirely nonsexual. It can be romantic, it can be non-romantic, it&#8217;s really up to you to design how you want your relationship to look and make sure you&#8217;re communicating that to other people, when you are trying to find relationships to make sure you&#8217;re going to be on the same page and compatible with what you want to get out of that dynamic.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Number four is that D\/s always has to involve pain<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A lot of people, even people that are very experienced in the lifestyle, think that masochist and submissive always have to go together \u2013 when the reality is, is that it&#8217;s more like a four way graph where you have a dominant submissive and then masochist and sadist, you can be submissive and be a sadist. I&#8217;m one of those people. For example, you can be a dominant and be a masochist. There are correlations, but it&#8217;s more of a bell curve than it is something that is set in stone.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And you don&#8217;t have to include things like impact play, or rope bondage, or really any kind of kink that you don&#8217;t want to include in your D\/s relationship. It&#8217;s more about what is going to work for your individual D\/s, what&#8217;s going to speak to what helps you feel more submissive and feel more dominant. And for a lot of people that does involve things like pain, because that can be very vulnerable, it can be a very, very deep way of connecting. But if that&#8217;s not your bag, there are tons of other alternatives like service, like lighter rope bondage, that maybe doesn&#8217;t have any pain element to it at all sensory deprivation. You can do sensation play scenes, or you can just focus on the power of exchange itself.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now finally, for <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">number five &#8211; my big one personally, that I am really trying to break down is that a lot of people think that in order to have a D\/s relationship, you have to have punishments<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because of the way that many people construct their D\/s relationships,they have rules, they have a contract \u2013 and of course, in order to enforce those rules, don&#8217;t you need to have a reward and a punishment?\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But punishment doesn&#8217;t work for everyone, somebody may have a trauma history involving punishment, somebody may just not be motivated by it. And we know from studies of how the human brain works and how behavior change works, that punishment is not the most motivating thing for most humans.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And so you can also just have a relationship that is based around behavior modification and reward and positive reinforcement. And focusing on teaching the behaviors you want to see, instead of punishing the behaviors that you don&#8217;t want to see. They can work together, but you can with the right setup, with the right mentality have a relationship that doesn&#8217;t involve punishment. So if you are reluctant about getting into a D\/s relationship, because you are afraid of the pain, you&#8217;re afraid of being punished, you&#8217;re afraid of doing something wrong, you can negotiate for a dynamic that doesn&#8217;t include those kinds of elements.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And that is really all that I have time for today. Those are my top five misconceptions about power exchange relationships. And thank you again to Zipper Magazine for collaborating with me on this project. I am so excited to see where this goes. And if you are excited like I am, you can go to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ZipperMagazine.com<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to check out what it is they have going on.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And if you want to catch up with them on their social media as well I will have all that down below in the description box. That is going to be everything for today guys, stay safe, and I will talk to you all again very soon. 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If you\u2019re looking to level up your domming skills, these tips for seducing your sub will help. <\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<article class=\"elementor-post elementor-grid-item post-13101 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-bdsm-how-to category-communication category-fetish_spotlight category-kink_fundamentals category-luna_matatas\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__card\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail__link\" href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/what-is-pegging-beginners-kinksters-guide\/\" tabindex=\"-1\" ><div class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1400\" height=\"547\" src=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/PrinceOfPegg.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-13214\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/PrinceOfPegg.png 1400w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/PrinceOfPegg-300x117.png 300w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/PrinceOfPegg-1024x400.png 1024w, https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/PrinceOfPegg-768x300.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" \/><\/div><\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__text\">\n\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-post__title\">\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/zippermagazine.com\/what-is-pegging-beginners-kinksters-guide\/\" >\n\t\t\t\tWhat Is Pegging? 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